Patch from Masca to use the buddy-icon selector to select a custom smiley. This gives us the preview widget for free, which is really nice. The patch also uses the icon-selector button we use for accounts in the smiley dialog, which is also very cool. This commit also includes some changes I made to make it possible to edit an existing smiley, by double clicking in the treeview. I merged this change with the changes in Masca's patch. I am hoping I didn't break anything in the process. If I did, let me know early before I forget whatever the heck I did!