When we get a presence of type="error" from the server that corresponds to a Jabber chat, only destroy/free/close/leave the chat room if the error happened while joining (and we were therefore never in the room). This fixes the following bug: 1. Join a room 2. Try to change your nickname to something that's being used by someone else 3. The server gives you an error message, but you're not actually kicked out of the room 4. Pidgin thinks you've been kicked out and won't let you send messages to the room, etc.