More efficient purple_find_conversation_with_account. Closes #9703. Patch mostly from Aman "tmm1" Gupta; I added the g_list_prepend calls. The functionality is going to get whacky when dealing with chats that share the same name ("MSN Chat"), but purple_find_conversation_with_account doesn't work for those in any sense of the word 'work', so... committer: Paul Aurich <paul@darkrain42.org>