Notice when the MUC item JID on unavailable presence references another resource. Refs #8319. Openfire supports multiple resources of the same user in a room under the same nick, but will route an unavailable presence from one to the other. We need to pick up on that (via the MUC item JID) and not treat it as our leaving the room. This won't always fix server broken-ness (e.g. anonymous rooms or non-admins). Also, Don't iterate over every <x/> child of the <presence/>. Just grab the one we want. There should [can] be only one.