Two performance/network bandwidth related changes here, care of meebo. 1. Only auto-fetch stuff for people who are away, because we really only want their away message. This changes oscar to NOT auto-fetch people's profile info. That doesn't matter for Pidgin and I don't think it matters for Finch. If it causes bad things for Adium or other things then please let me know. 2. When auto-fetching stuff, only request the away message and not the profile info, because we really only want the away message. Again, if this causes bad things to happen then please let me know.