jabber: Stricter checks on the send_raw prpl function. This (should) avoids a crash in the gtalkinvisible plugin as seen in a crash log from #pidgin. The plugin is trying to send a stanza as the (eventual) result of the signing-on signal, which is before prpl_info->login() is called. Call stack: jabber_send_raw protocols/jabber/jabber.c:443 jabber_prpl_send_raw protocols/jabber/jabber.c:548 6EA0122D plugins\gtalkinvisible.dll plugin_invisible_cb gtalkinvisible.c:147 67D0410B purple_signal_emit_vargs signals.c:465 67D04217 purple_signal_emit signals.c:436 67CFB75F purple_prpl_change_account_status prpl.c:389 67D09B3F status_has_changed status.c:669 67CC4409 purple_account_set_status_list account.c:1783 67CC4717 purple_account_set_status account.c:1752 67D00F18 purple_savedstatus_activate_for_account savedstatuses.c:1174 67D01899 purple_savedstatus_set_idleaway savedstatuses.c:887 67CE5D13 check_idleness idle.c:193 67D0410B purple_signal_emit_vargs signals.c:465 67D04217 purple_signal_emit signals.c:436 67CD9F34 _purple_connection_new connection.c:157 67CC56C1 purple_account_connect account.c:1216