Call purple_xfer_cancel_local instead of purple_xfer_request_denied when a file send is cancelled due to invalid files or the user cancelling the file selection dialog. I think this makes more sense, since there is no request to deny. It fixes a crash on exit with Bonjour where it attempts to cancel a non-existent PurpleXfer since it doesn't expect request-denied to be called for a send, and holds on to the pointer after it's destroyed. I think this may have affected some other prpls like the Telepathy ones, too.