Added "chat-join-failed" signal, emitted by a new serv_got_join_chat_failed() function in server.c. This is emitted with the PurpleConnection and chat name and allows a UI or plugin which was expecting a group chat to be joined to know if failure occurred. serv_got_join_chat_failed() is only called by jabber so far; I know that at least oscar should call it some situations, as well, such as when a busted SNAC error is received after trying to join a chat with an invalid room name.