If purple_blist_add_{chat,buddy} is called with a group or chat that isn't on the blist, add it at the beginning, similar to how we create and add a default group, if no group is given. Following discussion from http://pidgin.im/pipermail/devel/2007-August/002920.html on an earlier revision, fea00266488c85ba94e735d5885d991298e8f9d7.