Add ability to list roles/affiliations in a chat via slash-commands and modify roles/affiliations of multiple users at a time. Closes #5649. Slightly modified patch from Andrei Mozzhuhin. The multiple-user support is inefficient; all the changes can go in one stanza. We should also actually track roles/affiliations of members since ejabberd's MUC won't respond to the list query for a non-admin.