Patch from Zac West which (1) adds a message flag, PURPLE_MESSAGE_NOTIFY, used to indicate that a message is a protocol-level notification from a user ('buzz' in yahoo, 'nudge' in msn, for example) and (2) uses it along with improving the text displayed when sending/receiving buzzes and nudges. The addition of this flag means that a plugin could implement custom behavior, such as playing a sound or triggerring some other event, reliably and easily.