Fix a memleak in the MSN prpl when removing a buddy from your buddy list. We needed to call msn_user_unref() after calling msn_userlist_remove_user() I chose to fix this by changing msn_userlist_add_user() and msn_userlist_remove_user() to incremend and decrement the reference counter themselves--after all, they ARE the ones who add/remove a reference to the MsnUser struct. Conceptually I thought this made the most sense.