jabber: Validate user moods, and make the /mood cmd behave flexibly. A user in Pidgin running "/mood ?" or "/mood -" would result in invalid XML being sent to the server (similar to #14342, except '<-/>' or '<?/>'). Prevent this by ensuring the user is specifying something from the list. The /mood command will also now try to treat its entire arguments as a single string, and set that as the mood -- I figure this is what a user would expect?