[gaim-migrate @ 9758] This makes us tell the other person to connect to us if we can't connect to them, for direct im. Also I made us used the clientip instead of the verified ip for direct im, because I get the impression that's what the official aim clients use, and I think it sort of makes sense. Maybe I should compare the two and not bother trying if they're different. committer: Tailor Script <tailor@pidgin.im>