[gaim-migrate @ 9757] Some Direct IM fixes. 1. Let's send our correct ip. We were usually sending localhost, so the other side would try to connect to localhost and immediately fail and so say, hey! I can't connect to you! Connect to me instead! 2. Add some gaim_conversation_writes to keep the user more informed as to what's going on. This changes the libfaim API. libfaim users take note. I removed the util get local ip function, and made the function that used to use it take an ip as an argument instead, so that oscar.c could just call gaim's function, which works better. I also made it possible to specify a cookie to use, because I think I'll need that later. Probably. committer: Tailor Script <tailor@pidgin.im>